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怎样找到自己的人生目标?
发布时间:2010/4/27  阅读次数:570  字体大小: 【】 【】【
你思考过你的人生目标是什么吗?如何才能找到人生目标呢?我们大多数人都在庸庸碌碌地生活。每天的日常工作使我们非常忙碌,总期待下一个假期或聚会。但在某个周日的午后,当我们懒懒洋洋地靠在床上,一个念头突然出现:我的人生目标是什么?当有些人陷于无意义的工作或无出路的生活境遇时,这个问题就会出现。
但是要找到你人生的确切目标并没有那么简单。大多数人找出一个目标只是闹着玩而已,随后他们就发现自己并不是真的热心于此。
在你坐下来寻找你的人生目标之前,对现实生活有完全的了解是很有帮助的。下面就是几条有关寻找人生目标的建议。
Most  of  us  live  our  life  unconsciously.  The  daily  routine  of  work  keeps  our  mind  busy.  There  is  always  the  next  vacation  or  party  to  look  forward  to.  Then  one  Sunday  afternoon,  when  we  are  lolling  in  our  bed,  it  suddenly  hits  us?  What  is  my  purpose  in  life?  For  some  this  question  arises  when  they  are  stuck  in  a  meaningless  job  or  a  dead  end  life  situation.

Living  life  with  an  external  purpose  can  be  quite  satisfying  but  it's  not  so  straight  forward  to  come  up  a  fixed  purpose  by  which  you  define  your  life.  Most  people  come  up  with  a  purpose  just  for  the  heck  of  it  and  then  they  find  out  that  they  are  not  really  passionate  about  it  in  the  first  place.
It  helps  to  have  a  solid  foundation  in  reality,  or  the  truths  of  life,  before  you  sit  down  to  finding  your  purpose  in  life.  Here  are  a  few  pointers  that  can  help  you  in  this  process.
Check  if  you  already  have  a  purpose?
If  you  find  your  present  life  purposeless  just  look  again.  In  the  totality  of  life  there  is  no  purpose  that  is  too  small  or  too  big.  Even  a  street  sweeper  fulfills  a  very  important  purpose  in  his  life.  Even  if  you  are  working  in  a  small  firm  you  are  fulfilling  a  vital  purpose  in  the  link  of  life  by  the  service  you  provide.
May  be  you  are  supporting  a  family,  or  raising  kids,  that's  quite  a  significant  purpose.  If  you  think  your  life  is  meaningless  right  now,  it  would  just  show  that  you  are  not  really  paying  attention  to  your  present  role.
Your  true  calling  need  not  be  magnanimous?
Some  people  get  really  famous  while  some  live  a  private  life.  There  is  no  real  difference  between  the  two.  Each  person  fulfills  a  specific  role  and  no  role  is  more  important  than  the  other.
Your  inherent  talent  might  just  define  your  life's  purpose?  It's  surprising  how  many  people  go  through  life  with  some  incredible  talent  within  which  they  don't  convert  to  a  career  or  service.  If  you  have  a  talent,  it's  life's  gift  to  you.  Try  to  find  the  best  way  possible  to  convert  your  talent  to  something  which  gives  service  to  people.  There  is  no  better  way  to  live  a  purpose,  and  make  money,  than  through  an  inherent  talent.
Listen  to  your  heart  rather  than  your  mind?
Heart  and  mind  are  just  metaphors.  Heart  denotes  your  intuition  while  the  mind  stems  out  of  your  conditioning  patterns.  Get  in  touch  with  the  inner  voice  in  your  heart  and  see  if  there  is  a  deep  seated  desire  that  is  recurring.  May  be  all  along  you  have  just  ignored  this  desire.
Your  mind  might  find  several  excuses  to  tell  you  what  your  heart  wants  is  impractical,  but  that's  just  your  conditioning  speaking.  The  voice  of  your  heart  is  always  true  and  it  points  to  your  deep  seated  yearning.  

  
Write  up  an  essay  on  what  type  of  life  you  want  to  live?
It's  amazing  how  many  insights  you  can  get  simply  by  writing  down  your  thoughts.  There  are  millions  of  thoughts  rushing  through  the  mind  each  day  and  it's  difficult  to  make  sense  of  it  all.  When  you  sit  down  to  write,  the  thoughts  become  more  organized.
Without  much  ado  just  start  typing  or  writing  down  what  type  of  life  you  really  want  to  live.  Just  write  freely  without  involving  the  mind  too  much,  let  the  words  just  come  out  of  your  subconscious.  You  might  have  to  write  for  a  few  minutes  before  you  really  get  into  the  groove.
It  helps  to  write  for  a  few  hours  even  if  your  mind  stops  churning  out  ideas.  It's  precisely  when  the  mind  gives  up  that  the  heart  starts  talking.  When  you  read  this  essay  you  can  find  your  purpose  in  life  in  some  of  the  words  or  sentences  that  came  out  subconsciously.
Let  the  answer  come  from  stillness?
Our  intelligence  operates  at  two  levels?  One  is  the  noisy  mind  and  the  next  is  the  silent  space  of  stillness  within  us.  The  space  of  stillness  is  far  more  intelligent  than  the  conditioned  mind  and  this  has  been  proven  by  several  creative  geniuses  who  speak  of  entering  the  zone  of  no-mind  before  creating  their  master  pieces.
To  access  this  space  of  stillness,  just  sit  in  a  relaxed  position  and  get  in  touch  with  your  inner  body.  When  you  place  you  attention  on  your  inside  of  your  body,  the  mind  tends  to  stop.  Feel  the  sensations  and  energy  passing  through  your  body.  After  a  while  all  these  sensations  will  subside  and  will  give  way  to  stillness.  Ask  for  your  purpose  in  this  state  of  stillness  without  expecting  a  verbal  answer  from  your  mind.
Sometimes  you  might  get  your  answer  immediately  as  a  sudden  burst  of  intuition  or  you  might  get  your  answer  later  in  your  dreams  or  waking  state.
Follow  up  on  your  intuition?
Whenever  you  get  an  intuitive  hit  to  do  something  just  follow  up  on  it.  Sometimes  it's  important  to  take  a  few  risks  to  find  the  true  purpose  in  your  life.  Just  make  sure  you  are  in  tune  with  your  intuition  while  making  these  decisions.  In  the  end  there  is  no  such  thing  as  a  failure,  it's  just  an  opportunity  to  learn.
It  might  take  a  few  failed  attempts  and  dead  ends  before  you  finally  hit  upon  the  true  purpose  of  your  life.  You  are  likely  to  make  fewer  mistakes  if  you  are  in  touch  with  your  inner  voice  of  intuition.  Always  remember  that  the  emotion  you  feel  in  your  body  is  the  true  indicator  of  what  you  really  feel  about  your  decisions  rather  than  the  thoughts  in  your  mind.
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